Unique Kissing Techniques to Try Out

Written by Debbie Nicholson

A kiss is just a kiss or is it? Yes we are all familiar with kissing. That special moment that occurs between two people.

The anticipation that builds. The gaze into each others eyes. The moving in and lip contact. However, beleive it or not there are lot of kissing styles out there. Thirty-seven of them to be exact. So in reference to kissing and cupid here they are:

BUTTERFLY: While being very close to your partner and I mean close. Open and close your eyelids against your partner. The fluttering sensation should make your heart flutter at the same time.

BUZZING: Ever so softly place your lips on your partners neck. Now vibrate your lips anyway you wish such as humming. Move your lips slowly up and down there neck. You can also move to their checks and lips. This should cause a erotic sensation.

CHEECK: We all remember or should I say know these. Very gently give your partner a soft gentle brush of your lips on their cheek.

EARLOBE: Gently suck and sip earlobe. Do not make loud sucking noises or suck on earlobe like a baby would a bottle. The key word is gentle.

EYE: Gently hold your partners head with both hands. Slowly move their head in the direction you wish. Slowly kiss up towards partners eyes. Giving them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.

EYELID: While your partner is resting/sleeping. Very softly kiss the spot right below the brow bone.

ESKIMO: We all know this one. With your faces close together, gently rub your noses together.

FINGER: While you are laying together or even sunggling close, gently suck and kiss their fingers. This can be very seductive gesture.

FOOT: This is considered an erotic gesture. It can cause a tickling sensation. You can lightly kiss their foot and follow by a foot massage. Yes, persons have been known also to suck on there partners toes.

FOREHEAD: Yes just like the kind mom use to give. Gently brush your lips on the crown of their head.

FREEZE (OR MELT): This is to be sensual and erotic. Take a small piece of ice in your mouth. Open mouth, kiss your partner and pass them the ice with your tongue.

FRENCH: Another oldie but goodie. Close together move in for kiss. Open mouth and insert tongue. You should know the rest.

FRUITY: Using a small piece of fruit that contains juice such as strawberries or grapes. Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other half. The fruit will break in half and juices will flow and if done in right atmosphere well lets just say more than one juice will flow.

HAND: Gently hold her hand or hands and raise it to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand.

HICKEY: We all know these. Especially wearing scarfs or turtlenecks to hide them. The key here is do not draw blood. You gently suck on the neck (or where ever you desire) in order to leave a mark and a seductive remembrance.

HOSTAGE: Yep our wild side is showing here. Cover your lips with tape and get your lovers attention. Make noises and motions as if you can not get the tape off. Once they move in to remove the tape off and get it off. Move in for a kiss. Tell them you have been saving your lips only for them.

HOT AND COLD: Gently lick your partners lips to make them warm. Lightly blow on them. This should cause one heck of a sensual feeling in them. Hopefully leading to one erotic time.

MISTLETOE: Simply grab a kiss from your partner under the mistletoe. This works good for any prospective partner you may wish to get to know.

LETTER: Leave your lover a note with xxx's on the bottom.

LICK: Right before kissing your partner, gently run your tongue along your partners lips.

LIP SUCKING: Said to be very exciting. While kissing your partner gently suck on their lower lip.

NECK NIBBLE: Very softly nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a romantic kiss on their lips.

NIP: While kissing your partner very gently nibble on their lips. Do not bite hard, cause pain or draw blood. This is to be a sensual moment.

REVERSE LIPS: Stand above your lover and kiss them over their heads. This provides the opportunity to their sensitive bottom lip that you can nibble on. You want to draw blood to surface but not draw blood.

SEARCHING THE CAVERN: Using your lips and tongue, gently tickle and kiss your partners navel. Use various speeds and strokes.

SHOULDER: Come from behind your partner, embrace them and kiss the top of their shoulders.

SIP: Take a small sip of your favorite beverage. Leaving a little on your lips kiss your partner.

TALKING: Ok guys I know what your thinking. Simply whisper loving things into your partners mouth.

TEASER: Give short sweet kisses to your partner. Start on forehead move to lips to arms. Well you got the idea.

TIGER: Quickly and quietly sneak up on your partner and give them a harmless bite on the neck.

TRICKLE: Similar to the sip. Take a sip of your favorite beverage and trickle it on your partners lips.

TOUNGE SUCKING: Same as french kiss but also suck on your partners tongue.

QUICKIE: When in a hurry well the nose ends up with that kiss.

VACUM: While kissing with open mouths slightly suck in as if you where sucking in their breath.

VIRTUAL: Send a kiss on the net. Send your partner a ecard or email with this symbol ::-*

WAKE UP: Before your partner awakes gently lean over them. Give them soft kisses.

WHIPPED CREAM: Dip your finger into cool whip or whipped cream. Lick it off slowly, embrace your partner and kiss them deeply and passionately.

Okay so I went on my senior graduation trip to Cancun, Mexico in the summer of 2007. I had no intentions of finding a boyfriend out there when I was going to be having fun with my friends. Well the first night there I met a great and incredibly gorgeous guy! We hit it off and we hung out the whole trip. At first we didn't think that anything serious would come of it, but love was in the air and we continued to stay in touch since we were both from the Los Angeles area. I knew he was of Armenian descent and that they are only allowed to date withing the Armenian community; one of which i did not belong to. So we just decided to keep talking and getting to know each other- we were definitely in love and didn't want anything silly like that to get in the way of two very compatible people. Well as soon as his father caught wind of the fact that I was not Armenian, he threatened to kick my boyfriend out of their home. I could not believe this. It was so old fashioned to me, and outrageous! My parents told me I should do what I wished to do just as long as we knew what we were doing. So we're still together, and coming up on our six month anniversary, but his parents are not happy and pretty much are unaware of our relationship. It saddens me to know that I am somewhat a "secret" but I know that in order for us to one day have a fair shot at a relationship, things have to be like this for now.