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Tips for Saving a Marriage from Falling Apart
Marriages are made in heaven, but divorces, they happen right here on earth. So always make sure that you do not rush to things and try out these easy remedies that might actually help you save your marriage.
Try to live separate for a few weeks:
Will separating save a marriage, you might ask. Well, separation can save a marriage but only if you do it right. The philosophy behind this is that human beings tend to take things that belong to them for granted. They forget to appreciate the value of what they possess and realize it only when the thing is taken away.So plan a business trip or make up an excuse to get away from your loved ones for a while. When you are away, do not completely ignore your husband or wife. Try to send messages to them, email them your status and ask them theirs. Call them once in a while and before disconnecting, say the magic word 'I love you'.
While you are away you realize the things that you took for granted in your lover are no longer there. You tend to miss them and the magnet of love starts attracting the both of you towards each other again.
When you are back home, bring them back something unique and special from your trip. And make sure to tell them that you did miss them when you were away. All of us need a change and this could be just the right thing for the both of you.
Fire up your sex life
You realize that your husband is living with a mistress or your wife has been sleeping with her college mate. Now what is the reason they decided to share someone elses bed instead of yours? The answer is simple, the lack of sex. This does not mean that you are not sexy enough, or don't know how to make love. It simply means, you have ignored your lover when he wanted you to most or you are not doing to your lover the things that he or she wants you to do in bed.Now these can be very simple things. And apparently you are not doing these things because you feel they are wrong or against your religion. Now how can you beloved's wants in bed be against God? I mean, doesn't God want you guys to live together? Think about this and try to change.
I know women who longed their husbands to talk dirty in bed with them or play a sexual roleplay and when on mate with someone else just because that someone gave them this pleasure.
So first thing you do for saving your marriage and taking your husband away from that mistress is talk to him. And husbands, talk to your wife. Try to find out what they want in bed. If they find it shy to mention it to you on the face, ask them to write it down on a piece of paper.
Here are a few things that I have jotted down:
Go to the sex store near you and buy a book of Kamasutra. It does not matter if you read it or not. Just having the book in your house is a good enough sign that you want to enjoy sex and are not frigid!Invest in some quality erotic CDs that illustrate the art of lovemaking. You can always pick up a thing or two watching themTry roleplaying. This is a great way to explore your wildest fantasies. If you are not able to come up with ideas, refer this site. It's has a ton of roleplay ideasImprove your sexual vocabulary. Learn the different words that can be used to describe sex and sexual organs and try to use them while having sex or during regular conversations with your wife/husbandOkay, these were just a few tips, I am sure you got the point. So if you asked the question how can I save a marriage when my husband is living with mistress or my husband cheated, you know what to do.
Let Go of the Ego
Fights happen and ego clashes in fights between husband and wife are common. But are you going to let you ego take over your happy marriage? Probably not, if you are thinking sane. Before rushing into harsh decisions, let the fire settle down. Do not talk to each other for a while, but if your loved one wants to have a chat, support him and try to talk. Do not continue your golden silence.Marriage is all about adjustments so try as much to accommodate the other person. If thing go beyond control, you can try living separately for a while.
I know a couple, where the husband had a bad drinking habit and this lead to constant fights and arguments. The wife decided to shift in with her parents and after a few weeks the husband came to pick her up promising never the drink again. If your loved one truly loves you, he will come back to you and when he does, accept him happily. Do not keep sulking, as this is the time to let go of your ego.
Share Everything That Happens - Never Hide Things
I know this is easier said than done, but you have to communicate everything that happens in your life to your beloved. This is one way to ensure that when things go wrong, your wife or husband is always there by your side.>Let's take for instance, finances. Finances can have an adverse impact on your marriage. (So before it happens, learn to save.) If you find yourself in a bad financial situation, the first thing that you got to do is tell your spouse. If she loves you she will support you. But if you hide this fact from her and she comes to know about it at a later time, she is sure to get annoyed and label you as an incapable man.
So no matter what it is share it with your beloved.
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